Very few of us were ever given any kind of formal or comprehensive sex education in school, leaving porn stars to do much of the teaching, when we should be making movies... Still, AVN nominated porn legend and San Francisco sex columnist, Siouxsie Q invites the public to an erotic and educational cocktail hour at The Armory Club, Kink's Exclusive Cocktail Lounge, to answer all your burning questions!
The array of kinky play we can get ourselves into ranges far and wide, but there’s one thing most of us can agree on-- it’s the connection that makes the hottest scenes!
Come join us at the Armory Club for Conscious Kink, a sensual midweek yoga journey to connect and elevate your play! Expect breathwork, meditation, and various options for movement as well as a closing discussion to process how to get safely connected to the body and engage with others. This class will be accessible to any level of familiarity with yoga or kink.
Please, bring a yoga mat and be able to sit on it comfortably for an hour. We apologize that the Armory Club event space is not wheelchair accessible.
'Dating and Sex After Trauma: A Webinar for Survivors and Those Who Love Them' is a 90-minute online seminar led by therapist Traci Medeiros-Bagan.
Reclaim your right to pleasure in your body and connection in your relationships.
“In touch with the erotic, I become less willing to accept powerlessness, or those other supplied states of being which are not native to me, such as resignation, despair, self-effacement, depression, self-denial.” - Audre Lorde, Uses of the Erotic: The Erotic as Power, Sister Outsider
Do you struggle to build and create nurturing relationships, or struggle to trust them once they’re established? Has it ever been hard to stay present during sex or are there things your lover does that incite terror or rage for seemingly no particular reason?
Has it been challenging to practice clear consent with yourself, or communicate your needs and boundaries to a partner? Do you have a lurking suspicion you don’t deserve the enjoyment of sexuality and connection?
Trauma can literally change our physiology in ways that make our bodies and brains believe that we are living in the past. It organizes our lives from a place of defense and survival, and relinquishes our right to joy and thriving.
If you’re a survivor, this webinar will help you start to untangle the complicated effects of trauma on your sexual wellness and relationships. It will give you a framework for using triggers as guideposts rather than stop signs on the road to healing.
If you are dating a survivor, this webinar will offer insight into how to support your partner’s healing without taking responsibility for the causes of it. And if you are both survivor and ally, having found a loving reflection in this sometimes challenging world, you will leave this webinar ready to start building intimacy from a place of healthy differentiation.
The work of healing from trauma to reclaim our right to pleasure in our bodies and connection in our relationships is complicated, yet profound. Nurturing our ability to engage in a safe and empowering way with dating and sex can be both the agent of change in our healing and a symbol of the healing itself.
In Mindfuck: Mindfulness as a tool for greater pleasure, Heidegger will discuss how the practice of mindfulness can positively affect our sexual selves. The description is as follows:
Do self-conscious narratives hold you back from your greatest potential? Has past trauma impacted your ability to explore your own sexuality and pleasure? Join Nicoletta Heidegger, MA, MEd and Sexologist for an experience that will help you better understand the practice of mindfulness and how it affects our sexual selves. Lean into the shadows of your mind to gain insight and get in touch with what may be blocking you from being present in your body and discover some delicious tools and resources for mindful sex.